As we journey through life, certain milestones highlight the significance of those who shaped us, especially our parents. Moving out of the familial home often provides a new perspective through which to appreciate the profound impact of good parenting, particularly that of a mother. Personally, this transition has deepened my appreciation for my own mother and the invaluable lessons she has taught me.

Growing up, it’s easy to take for granted the guidance and support provided by parents. Yet, distance from home has a way of highlighting their influence. I’ve come to recognize the subtle yet profound ways my mother’s parenting has shaped me. Her unwavering love, boundless patience, and nurturing spirit have sculpted not just my character, but also my professional path as a therapist.

Reflecting on my upbringing, I see how the ground rules she set and the environment she cultivated laid the foundation for the person I am today. The values instilled in me by her gentle yet firm hand have not only shaped my identity but also informed my approach to relationships – as a friend, partner, and potential future parent.

Moreover, my mother and grandmother have been formidable role models, not just in how to live life, but in how to navigate its complexities with grace and resilience. As I experience the first Mother’s Day without my grandmother, I keenly feel the void her absence leaves, yet I am reminded of the enduring impact she had on my life. The experiences shared with them emphasise the bond between generations and the lasting influence of maternal figures.

Additionally, I am fortunate to have other women in my life who have provided maternal guidance and support. Their nurturing presence has enriched my journey, reinforcing the belief that motherhood extends beyond bloodlines.

As I reflect on the journey so far, I am filled with gratitude for the maternal influences that have shaped me. From the lessons learned to the love received. As I carry forward these lessons into the future, I am reminded of the profound impact mothers have, not just on their children, but on shaping the world around them.

Wishing all the mothers a Happy Mothers Day, especially to all those mummies that surround me.